UUFA Newsletter May 1st 2025

UUFA May 3rd Give Back Day 

Please join us Saturday, May 3 from 11:00 AM – 5:00 PM at the fellowship.  We will be  attending to various jobs on the grounds, planting some flowers and potentially scraping and painting the benches in the grove.

We will spend time after the tasks enjoyng one anothers company for food and fun – games and libations will be enjoyed. Please bring your favorite libation.  Pizza will be provided.  In keeping with our community’s support of the action “They Cut, We Care”…please bring a shelf stable food donation and/or a financial contribution and Carolyn Sweeney has offered to get it to the community’s collection.

  • If it’s raining Saturday – morning portion canceled – We will gather  at 2:00 pm for games and snacks !

sopnsored by the Membership Committee

 

 

Sunday Services May 2025

Sunday May 4 –  Altzheimers and Dignity with Rene Redd. Please join us to welcome Rene Redd with the Altzheimers Association to learn more about the devastating disease and how we can assist others who may be in need.  Nellie James is our service leader

 

Sunday May 11 –  Flower Communion and Welcoming Our New Members , Happy Mothers Day too! Please join us on this special annual day as we welcome our New Members; Jeff Wunderly, John Reagan, Amy  & Daniel Trumble and Lish Griener and Linda Sistrunk. Please bring a flower to share in our UU tradition of welcome the spring and summer with our Flower Communion , first established by Norbert Chopek in 1923 in Prague at a Unitarian church. Nellie, James, Membership Team as service leaders.

 

Sunday, May 18 – Music Sunday  and Potluck- Join us for a day of song!  We welcome Marietta UU Choir members to join us on this Sunday as we lift one another’s spirits in song!  We will have a potluck following service and continued singing ! Nellie James is service leader.

 

 

Sunday, May 25, 2025 –  Considering the Status of Women in the U.S. in 2025; from a UU perspective. Barb Harrison is service leader.

 

 

 

UUFA  Annual Pledge Drive Information

Gentlepersons:

This is Jessie Roberson.   I am leading the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Athens’ (“UUFA”) Pledge Drive for the 2025-2026 fiscal year.  I write to ask your help as the UUFA Executive Committee works to wrap up preparations for the coming year.  As you may recall, our bylaws require all members to submit an annual pledge form and to make an identifiable contribution to maintain their membership status.  HOWEVER, what you pledge and what you actually contribute is entirely up to you.  

The budget for the fiscal year that begins July 1, 2025, that is approved at the UUFA Annual Meeting, reflects the bare bones operation to which our Executive Committee shifted as we scrambled to adjust, to the myriad impacts of the Co-Vid 19 pandemic.  As the plague continues to wane (we hope – there still tend to be local spikes every time O.U. students return from a break!), we plan to continue doing “live” services; we also hope to enhance our technological supports for services.  Please feel free to contact any member of the Executive Committee to offer feedback, suggest further enhancements or suggest topics for future services.

Having as many returned pledge forms as possible will help to expedite the planning of the Executive Committee. Imagine trying to manage your household spending without having a reasonable idea of what your income will be each month. Pledges are an essential tool that allow the Executive Committee to make a realistic assessment of the likely resources available to support the functions, services and mission we hope to deliver to our community and our congregation over the coming year.  It is now possible to pay your pledge in cash, by check or on line using our link to Tithely.com,   

                                 https://get.tithe.ly/download-tithely-app 

As you may have noticed in our weekly Greensheet and/or Sunday announcements, our building hosts four or five activities per week.  The Executive Committee is trying to make our beautiful building a community asset.  Our improvements, both inside and outside the building, help advance that objective. 

Please take a few moments to fill out and return the pledge form attached.  You can return it in person during a service at the Fellowship, mail it (to UUFA, P.O. Box 0333, Athens, OH  45701), or return it via email by sending it to: treasurer@uuathens.org  .

The Executive Committee will look at the pledges at the end of the fiscal year (June 30 2025) and make appropriate adjustments to the budget in light of our financial support.  Of course, we will gladly accept your support however and whenever you choose to give it.  The amount of your pledge is left entirely to your discretion.  The grid on the following page is merely a point of reference as you consider your pledge.  The Executive Committee deeply appreciates your help in finalizing the plans for the various things that need to get done.  Please fill out a pledge form as soon as you can manage it.

Thank you for your time, attention and support.

For the UUFA Executive Committee,

Jessie C. Roberson, Pledge Drive Chair

Please send name and annual amount pledged directly to Susan Westenbarger, UUFA Treasurer at:

 treasurer@uuathens.org  

Unitarian Universalist Association Suggested Fair-Share Giving Guide

* See the chart below for “suggested” amounts for giving.  Please pledge what YOU feel is comfortable. 

 
Supporter
The church is a significant part of my life and promotes my spiritual growth. 
Sustainer
The church is central to my identity, and I am committed to sustaining our programs.
Visionary
I am committed to both the present and future growth of my church.
Full Tithe
I designate 10% of my income to the church as a way to live out my spiritual principles
Adjusted Annual Income
Suggested
Monthly
Annual
Suggested
Monthly
Annual
Suggested
Monthly
Annual
Suggested
Monthly
Annual
% of Income 
Payment 
Payment 
% of Income 
Payment 
Payment 
% of Income 
Payment 
Payment 
% of Income 
Payment 
Payment 
$10,000
2%
$16
$200
3%
$25
$300
5%
$42
$500
10%
$83
$1,000
$25,000
2%
$42
$500
3%
$63
$750
5%
$104
$1,250
10%
$208
$2,500
$50,000
3%
$125
$1,500
4%
$167
$2,000
5%
$208
$2,500
10%
$417
$5,000
$75,000
3%
$188
$2,250
4.5%
$281
$3,375
6%
$375
$4,500
10%
$625
$7,500
$100,000
3.5%Ath
$292
$3,500
5%
$417
$5,000
6.5%
$542
$6.500
10%
$833
$10,000
$150,000
3.5%
$438
$5,250
5%
$625
$7,500
6.5%
$813
$9,750
10%
$1,250
$15,000

 

LGBTQ PRIDE Celebrations in JUNE –  Looking Ahead and Hope you can Plan to Join Us!

SEORA is sponsoring Pride Fest in early June! All the events are open to all. We UUs gather on Saturday for the parade and to staff a table at the Street Fair. More details to follow in early June, but please add these events to your calendar!  Please reach out to  Susan Westenbarger for any questions that you have !

 

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Calliope Feminist Choir Concert 

Dear friends,
Being together is an antidote to despair. Add some music – the great connector – and we have deep nourishment. Please join us for an hour of music and togetherness at one of our upcoming spring concerts!
Fri., May 9 at 7:30 pm and
Sat., May 10 at 4:00 pm. 
Doors open half an hour before the show.
Athens First United Methodist Church, 2 S. College St.
Reservations (form) appreciated. Visit calliopefeministchoir.org/events for more information.
We accept donations (pay if and as you can) on a sliding scale: Basic – $10-30; Community-supported – less than $10; Supporting – $30-50 (Donating at this level allows a community member to pay what they can to share this experience.) We’ll take cash or check at the door; if using a card, please make a donation through our website. Thank you!
Both shows are ASL interpreted. Please let us know by May 7 if you need further accommodations: info@calliopefeministchoir.org.
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Fear and Love in a Red State

“Love is stronger than fear, but only if we participate in love.”
—Amy Julia Becker

Spring Break. I’m with my family in Orlando and my child needs to go to urgent care. As an Asian-American in a gay marriage, with adopted kids who are Black, I had booked this Florida vacation in the good old days of our former President. Everything is different now.I arm my white, cis male husband, Jeff, with our travel file—the folder with copies of our marriage certificate, the court orders declaring my husband and me the legal parents of our children, and more—and make an appointment for him at the closest urgent care. (This is often our family’s safety plan: the white guy in the family takes the lead.)

As Jeff and our child register at AdventCare, the receptionist inquires what Jeff’s relationship to our child is. He explains. When meeting with the doctor, Jeff offers, with carefully chosen language, that his “spouse” had a bronchial infection, and now our kiddo does too.

“How long was your wife sick? What was she prescribed?” Jeff takes a risk and responds, “He had bronchitis.” Only after receiving the needed prescriptions do we figure out that AdventCare is run by a denomination that is vociferously anti-gay. My heart sinks; I wonder if we got lucky.

The same week, on our family’s day at Epcot, I wear my “Mickey Pride” shirt—the only Disney shirt I own: Mickey, Minnie, and a colorful explosion of rainbows and hearts.

Within half an hour of arriving, a thirteen year-old boy goes out of his way to tell me how much he loves my shirt—beaming from ear-to-ear, knowingly—as his Mom coaxes him back to their family. Another family spends half an hour getting to know our kids, gifting them trading cards, and offering us more ear-to-ear grins of love and affirmation. Near the end of our Epcot day, a park employee comments that she “likes my shirt” (by now I realize that I’m a walking billboard of gayness) and asks how our day in the park has been going.

I think about the fear I was feeling in contrast to this day: so much love and support, from so many unexpected directions. And I’m grateful.

Prayer

Even as fear abounds and reverberates, may I notice the life-saving, persistent presence of Love. May I be that love for others.